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(before you can give it to others)
TRAVELLING THE 5 STEPS, SPEAKING THE 5 SHAPES
What this is about? To Change & grow, in what is important to:
HOW TO CHANGE? Use the CWF & travel the 5 steps, speaking the 5 shapes
1st STEP: Connect in S.A.F.E.T.Y
Change from Shame, to Love & Connection, in safety!
2nd STEP: Understand your (& my) 5 SHAPES
Change From lost, to known & understood : Ask….
- “How is your triangle?”(Mk 12 :30,31) “How R U with…with God, with others, with yourself?”
- “How are your circles?...spirit, heart, min, physical, social?”(Mk 12:30,31; Jesus was whole.Lk2:52; “Holy…whole” 1Thess 5:23)
- “Where are you at?” (Gen 3:8) in the square?(Going well / not so well; God-centred self – centred)
- “Where are you at” in the cross? Born again?(spirit position / centre / who I am)
- “How is your Pyramid?” (Supports)
3rd STEP . Respond with all 5 shapes
Change from despair , to hope, response and choice :Respond….
1. Triangle: “Lets Trialogue & Connect”
2 & 3. Circle & Square: “Lets get real & Understand”
3 & 4. Square & Cross: “Lets Cross Over & Respond” (repentance)
5. Pyramid : Lets be & be in the Pyramid (support)
4th STEP. Engage other help
Change from alone, defended and stuck , to being open, with and growing
WHY use the CWF?
To Change & grow, in what is important to:
- Live the Great Commandment.Mk 12 : 30,31. … and the New Commandment Jesus gave us: Jn 13:34
- Become a follower of Jesus, rather than of yourself (Mk 8:34 -37)
- Grow the body of Jesus, the church ( Eph 4: 12- 16)
- Become holy whole, (1 Thess 5:23), in your
Spirit
Soul / heart, changing from
Shame - to love and connection
Lost - to known and understood
Despair - to hope, response and choice
Alone, defended and stuck - to being open, with and growing
Mind
Body
Social
Family
Friends
Church
Work /school
- To do the Great Commission. Matt 28: 19,20
How To Change?
Use the CWF &...
1st STEP: Connect in S.A.F.E.T.Y
Change from Shame to Love & Connection, in safety!
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The smaller the size, the bigger the connection (2’s & 3’s -- Small group -- Church -- Local denomination -& Region )
1. Care 2. Confidentiality (Is this private?) 3. Consent (What do you want?)
be real together, (not Fake, Flight, Fight, Freak, Flop)
What is it like in you shoes, heart, eyes, head?
It takes time to connect
You questions...("How R U?"; "Where R U?" and not You Advice1
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2nd STEP: Understand your (& my) 5 SHAPES
Change from lost to known & understood : Ask….
 1. "How is your triangle?"
(Mk 12 :30, 310)
"How R U? with..."
2. "How are your circles?"
(Mk 12:30,31; Jesus was whole.Lk2:52; “Holy…whole” 1Thess 5:23)
“How R U?! …”
3. "Where are you at?" (Gen 3:8) in the square?
4. "Where are you at?" in the cross?
( Spirit / Position / Who I Am )
5. "How is your Pyramid?"
3rd STEP: Respond With All 5 Shapes
Change from despair to hope, response and choice Respond
1. Triangle
"Let's Trialogue & Connect"
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2 & 3. Circle & Square
"Let's get real & Understand"
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3 & 4. Square & Cross
"Let's cross over & Respond"
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5. Pyramid
"Let's be & be in the Pyramid"
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I don't have the whole answer. We can...
4th STEP Engage Other Help
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